Is she happy or just scared?

i know a very pretty 33yo columbian girl who's married a arabic(muslim)man.she say's it herself that she don't eat pork or goes dancing or unaware for him,But! at work she'll eat pork,dance with us and has a great time. Is she lien to herself? can she be happy? she has 2 kid's 1 is his.i talk her Alot at work and yes i like her and she knows it.her friends dont agree with her marriage and i asked alot of people and they all say they'll nvr merry a muslim man. so y did she and is she happy